Been following along....this is a tough one. I agree with alpha on the go slow and what does that tell you about her issue. She, you, we can always find something better...the question is should we be looking for people who are willing to build something or throwing it away when they see something better. Of course we don't have all the details and it is easy for me to be saying this becasue cafe girl is not interested in me. Maybe a few years ago, i would have said go for it, what do you have to lose? Today......I would say keep your distance and even if she does dump her boyfriend.....that is the time when you will really have to slow it down. Nice to be noticed though!
