I've questioned whether I'm sitting myself up for a fall and making sure that I don't.
Just that statement shows awareness - a very good thing. We all come out of this D stuff bruised and battered, looking for validation. Needed reassurance that we are OK - that can only come from the opposite sex. (this is a lesson taught to me by a wise friend who has been my rock). Getting that validation is good and necessary.
But that doesn't stop us from worrying about you.
AO
I can understand that..I don't think I needed reassurance that I would be OK. I did have an idea how all this D crap would come out due to having rode that bull before so I knew I would be OK. It is nice to be noticed.
I'm taking a watch and wait attitude AO. I see her daily, I'm pleasent. I am showing her the kind of man I am. I'm a good guy, not a villian. Would never play the OM. She knows I can't fix the sitch she's in and knows I won't rescue her..so the balls in her court...
I'm just sitting in the stands at the moment, watching the game.
You guys post more as you want about this..I like hearing and seeing your thoughts and ideas..I learn a little every time you guys post.