it's only emails, daily chit chat and glances Arthur. There are possibilities. I want let it go EA/PA simply because I will not be OM. it is against what I believe and how I am
Yep, I have no doubt how you are, but what is this telling you about her? If she'll do it with you, she'll do it to you. This says she's lining her back pocket with another man so she doesn't have to be alone, IMHO. You are a great guy and do not deserve to be the OM. Absolutely not. I wouldn't communicate with this chick until she's available. I see flags....
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Yes, I have thought about that AO. She told me she noticed me over a year ago. She says she did not approach me then because she thought I was out of her league and she was out of my league a year ago because my league was married and technically my league is still married..on paper anyway. She knows the deal. Like I said, it's chit chatty emails now and a daily hello. I see her everyday. She is where I work so no communication would be a problem...and I see some flags too..that's why I bring my chitt here..