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it's only emails, daily chit chat and glances Arthur. There are possibilities. I want let it go EA/PA simply because I will not be OM. it is against what I believe and how I am


Yep, I have no doubt how you are, but what is this telling you about her? If she'll do it with you, she'll do it to you. This says she's lining her back pocket with another man so she doesn't have to be alone, IMHO. You are a great guy and do not deserve to be the OM. Absolutely not. I wouldn't communicate with this chick until she's available. I see flags....

AO