of all the LBS's who had WAS come home I cant think of any who had success with your method. I believe they all gave their S some time to think and go thru the crisis. That is why your h is so stuck..you will NOT let him go thru the steps he needs.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest