I'll give an update..well the week started off with an email on Monday from STBX throwing me a bone and asking me if I wanted to pick up D2 on Thursday of this week after daycare and keep her a few hours. I replied back with a yes and a thank you..so an extra day for Mikey. I then get a VM from her on Tuesday reminding me that the daycare that D goers to now requires an ID card be made..she also let me know the times..I had all thuis written down in a planner and knew about it..I fail to see why she thought I needed to be reminded..but that is neither here nor there..remember, I'm the lucky guy who chose batchitt..I've worked on the house lots this week. I'm hosting my first Texas Hold-em game this Saturday..so have about 10 victims coming over..it should be fun. I'm gonna smoke another Boston Butt for pulled pork for that..on an ironic side note..there is a festival that is held at a place in the town where STBX now lives. We always went as a couple..well the tickets were always comped to us as we know the owners..they were always mailed..well I changed my mailing address when I moved so the tickets came to me ROTFLMAO...so me, a good buddy and his wife will be at the festival Friday night..so Friday and Saturday night are spoken for..

I've been feeling pretty good for about 4 weeks now..I have a few bad days btu the PMA has been high for a reason. I had a young lady approach me about 3-4 weeks ago..she will be known here as cafegirl34. She's hot, she's never been married, she owns her own house, drives a sharp Mustang GT which she keeps in pristine condidtion. All the guys here go ga ga for her..and out of all those guys she picked me..now for the kicker, she has a boyfriend. They live together..our interactions have been strictly via email, and longing glances in the cafe, daily chit chat, and very, very, good emails..of course I've made my position clear that I won't be OM and that she should make a decision. It's clear that she is not happy and is looking for better and I am clearkly the better. It's been a really good opportunity for me to use my DB skills and it's also been a good opportunity to feel the new me in a hopefully developing R...we will see..it's also been good that things are slow...it's good for both of us. I had my D a few hours last night..it was nice. I taught her to say, "I have the best sugars in the whole world"
she is a cutie..the light of my life..she is my purpose..

Mediation on Wednesday and the permanent visitation starts that day too..

Last edited by M from Tennessee; 10/03/08 10:38 AM.