Hey Truly, Glad to hear you're doing better. About his stuff at your place, I would box them up and text him that if he doesn't pick them up after a certain date, you're going to donate them to charity or leave them out on the street. You are getting stronger and that's the most important thing.
Before we got married, my W and I broke up. I did the same pleading behavior and it got me nowhere. It wasn't until I really didn't give a 'darn' what she was doing anymore that she actually started missing me. Hopefully the same will be in your situation. Show him the strong person you were before and that might be enough to 'snap' him out of his funk.
If he asks why you're doing that to his things, just tell him you need the room for any 'guests' that you want to bring home.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
