GREAT attitude about knowing it's going to work out.
You're an inspiration!!!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Please look at you, you are in a completly different country and maintaining!!!! You need to be proud of yourself too missy!! You have been drastically improving!!
I stand by what I said though. I mean I freak out when I don't get contact for 48 hours!!! I guess all situations are different though. I really do admire your absolute faith in the outcome. Is this the Secret talking or have you always felt like this?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
I have always felt that it is not over but the Secret is helping me to see it more clearly and to take some action such as the sleeping on my side of the bed again and taking out pics.
I have wrote a "future" Dear Diary letter outlining everything that I want for the near future including new job, H moving back in, spending time and starting a family.
I write these letters too. They have worked successfully for me in the past, so I think they are really valuable.
Do you have a vision board too, ala Secret?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
I haven't started the vision board yet but I have cut out pictures from catalogues of how I want my place to look and taped them where I envision they will go once I have the items...lol.
I have been looking online for things that I want and started printing them out so I can make some sort of vision collage.
Do you know that since I started asking for signs about H's intentions toward me, I have seen no less than SEVEN bridal parties?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
You know what I think it funny sometimes I noticed that when I think about the sitch while driving there will be a song that will play that will give me hope..it's like it is playing for me at that moment to give me an answer.
Still NC from the hubby I assume? What are you doing this weekend to GAL? Working like a crazy woman? What happened to that craft fair you were going to invite hubby to? Are you thinking of doing something like that or are you going to wait for him to contact you before you start inviting him to do things?
Nope NC!! Yes working like a mad woman will be me!!
Never went to the Craft Fair because I did alittle too much partying Sat night and was too hung over to go...lol. Yea I am going to wait until he initiates contact. I think it looks too pushy that we haven't talked in awhile and the first text he gets from me is asking him to do something. I'm in it for the long haul so I can be patient.
