Men helping men. I know the "void" for me was not having a father around to model strong male maturity for me.
He is still in the mode of whatever the problem is, it must be OUTSIDE of him. He is talking about selling the house; moving somewhere (or not- he just wants to know he can if he wants); switching jobs...He is still just grasp grasp grasp.
I said something about God and he sorta scoffed. Way back when, he used to be on worship team, and now he just turns his back on God. Or at the most, keeps God at arms length.
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If you've resigned yourself to accepting that he's gotta go off and do his own thing
Do I have a choice besides resigning myself?
Yes, his remarks still have an effect on me. I still love him. I still see a lot of 'potential' for us. I need a full-on awakening.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
