I guess it's over

[Trixi]

I bet he was pretty surprised when "Huh? She doesn't want to sleep with me? Why? I've been nice tonight and I told her I might come over sometime this weekend.. that's not enough? Huh, Weird."

Just for the sake of clarification-- I didn't ask him about the weeked after he dropped the bomb. I asked about the weekend; got pissed because he was going to a party (and I remembered how the non-date was asking to to go to parties WITH him). That was what opened up the can of worms.

I am sure he doesn't think he is coming over on Sunday....

But I totally see your point where from his perspective, it is just more of the same for him; to a degree. I don't think that we're exclusively dating anymore; and he has said that I need to do what I need to do, so I guess he's setting me free.

Actually, it probably was a little bomb like for him. He's the one that has been "tormented" and didn't know what to do.

UGH!
and so now he gets to waltz off, foot loose and fancy free. 13.5 years down the crapper.

I am vascilating between despair and denial.
I go thru waves of "OMG. I'm never going to get to be with him again. I'm alone. There's no one out there that will compare. I miss him" to "That's fine. He'll be back. He always is. He needs to work whatever out."

One of my listings just decided to turn into a rental. Another one has no illusions- they know they probably won't sell right now. I do have 2 listings that are agressively priced, so I am hopeful...Please, dear God, let them sell ASAP.