I have backed off again, not seeking her out, being happy, GAL with friends etc. I'll let WAW initiate the next discussion, I have not yet pushed tyhe go button on the asset split, although I have spoken to the attorney about next steps. Bit confused as there is someone I quite like but not yet done with my marriage. So I guess I stay in limbo for a bit.
Guess I have been looking for the mind read as it seemed like a long time to be separated and I wanted to get a read for the future......
Thanks for the feedback/support everyone, you are really helping here.....
-------- Me; 38 W; 34 1 4yr old S Married 4.5 yrs, together 9 yrs Bomb; 15 June 2007 Holiday together Sept 2008; My Dad dies Nov 2008; reconcliation fails Nov 2008