T2L.. awesome and I love your plan... I don't have the book yet but I love your plan and I've been incorporating Plan A a bit too... talking Love Language and filling love bank... also continue to make my 180
The more they are with us and family the less with OW .... like you said if you do it short term it makes since ... as hard as it is and will be... stay strong...
Tonight was huge for me... Please Please go read my post ... my thread is long... my H showed remorse and cried almost like a baby for the first time in 5 weeks since he dropped the bomb... We hugged like we didn't want to let go.. gosh it confirms how I miss him so much. He was finally the man I married, sentitive and emotional... but it isn't like he begged me to take him back... so me being nice this week has allowed him to open up... please give me your feed back after you read.. " H moving out.. Update - Helps" is my thread... I feel like I need hope..
hang in there ladies. I need to go to bed
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08