One of the things my H seemed to dislike at the end (or hate) was that I was a planner. I have been very organized and focused, made things happen in my life. Which is why it is so hard to not try to put a schedule/timeline on things.
These are very very good character traits. I am impressed when people display this behavour.
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats
