Hi native, Well, your list of thing to do & GAL looks good. If your W thinks she's being smothered, then just give her some space. (Really - you should probably moved to seperated - & not in Piecing - my opinion). I, myself don't look much at Piecing - cuz I'm not at that point. There is guilt & blame on both sides in any M. Maybe your W feels guilty and or has low self esteem, both she has to work on her own. Just be patient.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
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