Peicing but Angry and Confused.......HELP !

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W hardly acknowledges me whe she sees me now. Never calls just to talk. Rarely calls at all. Never returns e-mails.

All my communications to her are just about business.

She is totally shut down towards me.

Even thought I have gone over what I know and understand about us again and again, I just don't understand......

If she was in as much pain as she says she was, how come I didn't know what I could do to make it better ?

I really think she belives I can or should have read her mind and responded properly to meet her needs.

She bears responsiblity here too. If I withdrew from her for rejecting me over and over again, she withdrew from me and D6 and everything needed to run the household years ago.

And until recently, I thought it was because of her many health issues, not that she thought I was the problem.