h4h....Well, it seems as if she is either "still deciding and is in between", being nice so she can get all that she can in the divorce, or cake eating. Doesn't matter. Seems as if you are doing the right thing. So, now the week you had the kids it seems like she got to see them often. When you don't have the kids you should still try to see them often. You don't think she could be trying to get proof that the kids are with HER more so she can show that to the courts? Probably nothing, but I think about stuff like that now because I don't trust anyone (due to how sneaky and deceptive I was \:\( ).