K,

I am with ali on this one... if you are really smiling inside then why all this anger?? It does not seem to me that he wants to D.

What are you afraid of? Please name it, and if you feel comfortable, tell us what it is.

I think that is the true way to move forward.

Do not be afraid of sharing hairy english with us either. I want to hear it whether it is waxed, shaven, or hairy as a dog.

LOVE
T