Hi TxMom, Of course I did say that to my H also about leaving the door open, and I knew it was wrong to say. He does not want to hear that, his mind is moving ahead to D and OW. I have to learn to keep my mouth shut also. He came over to see D tonight and she went with him to see his apt. It is very sad sitting here alone. Today, I stayed home and felt sorry for myself and then took a nap. But when i got up, I went to see D's school and spoke with the counselor and then came home and made her dinner. Then H came over and talked to me. It is hard to detach with H working with me and now living down the road. I don't know if he will ever miss me. But I like the idea of the love bank and I am working on being kind and filling up the bank. It is tough. You did good with the text message - short and sweet.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09