I don't think I will ever stop crying but like you said it does get less and less....I just believe in my heart that we belong together....he is my other half...I've always stood by him and he knows it....I want to make it to the other side also...my anniversary is on the 20th...it will tough.. Trying to just get through it.
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
I was the same way. My h and I had such a good R before all of this happened. He is my best friend. Sure there were changes made to make us stronger once we got bacdk together. We both have grown and hopefully we will be together for the rest of our lives.
I have told you before, go with your heart. God is working.
"I just believe in my heart that we belong together....he is my other half...I've always stood by him and he knows it...."
They know it but it's in the past. Question is will it matter in the end...
Hang in there Treese you are trully not alone.
YR, I hope that all is well for you.
Take care, TOH
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
YR....my H is my best friend....I shared everything with him....now when I have something to share I just keep it to myself...it's just not the same...no one to get excited with....the loneliness is what is getting to me... I hate waking up in my bed alone...no one to kiss goodbye to in the morning....or to wake up to take son to school....I miss that small interaction.....I wonder sometimes if he misses it too.....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
We all went through that too. I missed the closeness of our M. One day it was there and the next it was gone. Everything would remind me of my h. You have alot more contact with your h than I did. Just keep the communication open as much as you can and be your sweet self!
It seemed like it went on forever. I hated that part. I didn't know what the end was going to hold for us.
I think we were apart around 18 months. He had little or no contact from 8/05 till 4/06, if I remember correctly. Then he started his coming home and leaving numerous times. When he would leave he stopped the contact again. I got pretty good at recognizing the patterns he was displaying in his moods and actions so I knew it was coming.
You mean my h has your h beat as to how long he has been gone???
Can you believe mine has been gone six months this time?
Mine has been gone a total of 27 months!!!!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
