I personally saw some positives in the things he said to you, but sounds like you need to back off and go dark as you said. He sounds pretty conflicted. How are you doing tonight? Do you feel, as though I did, that you have ha "the scales lifted from your eyes" ?
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread