hahaha darn you dont have Bethie or Barb or C2 email? think of the dot coms , t his is the most popular , reminds me of the country we live in lol and well her name is the same, she dosnt have much of an imagination ya know.
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
I don't even pretend to know what's law in your state, but didn't you once say you'd retained someone? It might be a good idea to ask about dates. The paperwork I had to fill out revolved around a certain date - and that was the date of separation in my case. I know each state varies, but it might be something you could look up on the internet.
I hear AOL has lots of good sites to look that up on. It's worth a shot.
I'm going to make it to those 10,000 posts one way or another! LOL!
The mattress is the place to be. Isn't that a guy thing. Like in the Godfather "Going to the Mattresses". Hmmm????
I already got in trouble for posting my email address but the first part of it would be my former DB name (read my thread) and its at that hot place. Get through to me and I can put you in touch with others. Give it a shot.
Hope all went well with the phone conversation. And mostly I hope your d is doing well.
I spent a year in Iraq as the intelligence officer for a one-star general, but this sh&t just eludes me. I should be able to pick out clues, trails, whatever, but MySpace, Facebook? Like tatoos, just skipped a generation. One of my good friend in Iraq had pages on both of these, and had women in holding patterns waiting for him when he came back to the States.
Trying to give me clues how to find people on MySpace/Facebook is like trying to break the enigma machine code in WWII:
The chair is against the wall. John has a long mustache.
Well, immediately after checking this board last night, I got an email from W. saying she is changing attorneys, her actual word was "retained"...love it!
She was originally using a lawyer from the firm where she works. (It WASN'T the attorney who's USING HER). From the start, this had a certain odor to it, and I couldn't believe they allowed her to even think of using one of their attorneys.
The phone conference with her re: "co-parenting" (I HATE all this divorce vernacular, it's like "your father" rather that "Dad" Yech!!!) was tense. She told how tired she was of dealing with D16 "all alone", and how I was not forcefull enough in insisting D16 spend time with me when she didn't want to. The therapist thought I should insist that D16 spend more time with me, so that the "current caregiver" could get a break.
Maybe some validity to that D16 said she didn't like to eat around me for whatever reason, but last Tuesday, she told her therapist we had a good time, which we did, so this may ease that transition when she comes home.
If the "current caregiver" didn't need to be "happy" this would not be an issue...Oops. Was I cynical..again?
