OK, that would be an R! I am very curvy! Um, should we be thinking about each other in the shower? How is that related to DBing? Is that considered part of GALing? Oh, yeah, H4H I will if you will first! Karen
Originally Posted By: kat727
You guys are skipping over "R" and heading to "X". LOL Maybe DBing should be a new position?
kat
Originally Posted By: hopeful4her
I'm ok with that.
New one for the books. The DB.
OH, MY!!!!! I think you skipped over the "R" rating and went straight to the "adult" video store.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Yeah, can you tell it's been way too long??? I had several dreams last night that would get an adult rating, too. I think I really do need a cold shower or something!!! Sorry! Karen
Don't feel bad. I am still the Master of my Domain but my brain gave me lots of hot sexy dreams Tuesday night. no wonder I was still tired when I got up!! So you are not alone my dear friend.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Thanks Kat! Did anyone watch the debate??? I thought it was good, apparently they both did. I think one of the candidates was a little more informed than the other, but perky's good too! She probably puts smileys in her emails too! Karen
Just got a letter from the lawyer which she sent to H's L. Requesting depo of H in the next month, mediation in the next month or so, and then final D hearing on December 3rd to resolve any of the issues not solved by mediation (could be a bunch!). She said I agreed a Temp. hearing as far off as December was too prolonged and unnecessary. Makes me sound very impatient I think, but I am mostly just concerned with $$. Karen
Just remember it is still in your control. Concern about $$ is understandable. Impatience? Not really. Just moving things along - heck even looks like you are just trying to give H what he wants. You can start it - but you can also stop / delay it if you want.
AND you can always blame the L if you start getting cr@p...
Take care.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Impatience? Not really. Just moving things along - heck even looks like you are just trying to give H what he wants. You can start it - but you can also stop / delay it if you want.
AND you can always blame the L if you start getting cr@p...
Oh, I will!!! Must remember to blame the L!!! I'm glad you think it doesn't sound like I'm impatient, don't know why I care, but do. At this point, I am fine with D b/c who H is now is not good for me. I was talking to my C yesterday and told her how I have recently realized that everytime I am feeling really good and happy and self-confident, H seems to purposely make negative comments and try to upset me, like he can't stand to see me happy. I think H4H helped me realize that btw so thanks again (don't know if I thanked you the first time though!) Two months should give me enough time to get used to the D, find a job, etc. I never thought I would get D, but it is the best thing for me I realize. Karen
It seems people like you and I will ALWAYS care. We shouldn't. We know.
What you said about your H is true. He is always trying to tear you down. You don't deserve someone to be like that to you.
You know, I believe your a very special person, karen. The way your handling yourself and holding down the homefront for yourself and your kids. Very admirable and sexy, I might add. Your confidence shows.
Glad that I can play a little part in your life, even if it IS virtual.
Feels real to me, though
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
Thanks, H4H. You are so sweet! I think our friendships here are real, even though virtual, which makes no sense but maybe ykwim? I tell you more than I tell my C, family, or non-DB friends!!!
H just called. He's been on vacation again this week and back on Sunday, but surprisingly called the kids today. He asked to talk to me as well about the birthday gift for D8's friend who has the party tomorrow which makes no sense--he didn't leave much money for groceries and none for the present so maybe felt some guilt or something--not much though! I felt uncomfortable talking to him and kind of dislike him at the moment, so tough but I was friendly as usual although H knows me (or used to know me so well) I would think he would pick up on that. I did give him a cheery "Have fun on your trip" at the end. Karen
Um, should we be thinking about each other in the shower? How is that related to DBing? Is that considered part of GALing? 
Karen 
I think you skipped over the "R" rating and went straight to the "adult" video store.