As I start most of my threads, I want to thank all the people who take time out of their own drama and troubled times to console and advise me. I always need some hard slaps in the face when I start letting my wife control me.
I basically stopped all contact with W. She will ask what's wrong or how I am so I don't respond. She tries telling me where she goes and who with but I told her I don't need to know nor do I care - not her buddy, friend, acquaintance etc.
I am able to do this now because basically I can't stand her and don't want her back. She broke her marriage vows to screw some fugly who knocked her up and bailed on her. Im Not her savior or her rescuer; nor her adviser, housekeeper, therapist or anything similar. I deserve better. Let some other guy get his life messed up by her, not me
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love