Okay folks, the showdown is next Tuesday, Oct 7th. 9 am.
I am sure I will be in need of drinks on that day.
So here is a song by Don Henley to start off my thread....
I got the call today That I didn't wanna hear But I knew that it would come An old, true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone She said you'd found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck, and the struggles we went through And how I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door Make us throw off our contentment and beg for something more?
I'm learning to live without you now But I miss you sometimes The more I know, the less I understand All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning again
I've been tryin' to get down to the heart of the matter But my will gets weak and my thoughts seem to scatter But I think it's about...forgiveness Forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me anymore
Ah...these times are so uncertain There's a yearning undefined and people filled with rage We all need a little tenderness How can love survive in such a graceless age?
Ah...the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness They're the very things - we kill I guess... Ohh pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms And the work I put between us you know it doesn't keep me warm
I'm learning to live without you now But I miss you, baby And the more I know, the less I understand All the things I thought I'd figured out I have to learn again
I've been trying to get down to the heart of the matter But everything changes and my friends seem to scatter But I think it's about...forgiveness Forgiveness Even if, even if, you don't love me anymore
There are people in your life who've come and gone They let you down, you know they hurt your pride You better put it all behind you baby; cause' life goes on If you keep carryin' that anger, it'll eat you up inside, baby
I've been trying to get down to the heart of the matter But my will gets weak and my thoughts seem to scatter But I think it's about forgiveness Forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me
I've been tryin' to get down to the heart of the matter Because the flesh will get weak and the ashes will scatter So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness Forgiveness Even if, even if, you don't love me... Forgiveness (yeah) Forgiveness (baby) Forgiveness (ohh) Forgiveness (ahh yeaaahhh) Forgiveness (ohh) Forgiveness Even if, you don't love me anymore...
So....what is going on, peeps?
Love to all, Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
V With all going on, I havent kept up, is this for your D? sorry if you have mentioned it and I am guessing it is.
Like everyone told me here ( although I ended up not having to go to court) think of all of us sitting behind you, silently cheering you on! You have our cyber support!!!! You can do it and you will come out of that courtroom w/ your head held high cause yu can!!! and your life will be wonderful!!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
I ended up not going to court, although I had an outfit all ready lol I think a lot of times it ends that way, its less $$ and really , I wonder if there is a need. Everything is usually ironed out ahead of that.
Good Luck anyway and let us know Hopefully I can still read your thread lol
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life