Cinders .. I can empathise with a lot you have written here ..
My H is becoming more and more distant .. however unlike you I see this as a positive rather than a negative.
When my H first met OW, he was full of himself, like your H wanted us to be friends with me.. and for us all to get along … He would make any excuse to come to the door, phone me, text me just to let me know how happy he was.
Does he do it now? NO.
He hardly contacts me at all. Is that cos he is all loved up with OW? I don’t think so.
You know Nutty, that really makes sense to me. My H use to call me and text me and all that stuff when he was with the OW. Maybe it was just to let me know how happy he seemed to be. That life was good.
NOW? no. He isnt with the OW anymore. She dumped him. He hardly calls or texts anymore. Acts distant to me. Always seems down and has alot of down days. BUT his excuse to me is that he has just changed. That is why he is acting all different over the last few weeks. I think he is depressed and just avoiding it.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
