Hi red,
just checking on you... No is not a bad word. And you do need to set boundaries. If not for you, for your girls. They are old enough to notice and pick up behaviours from their mom. What would you advise THEM if -God forbid- they had to deal with something similar?

(I know, I need to listen to me also)
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009