I see many positives in your story. The fact that he is sharing with you and still loves and misses you is GREAT! True, he may be confused now, but as you said, perhaps the confusion may not be about you but about other issues. If you both keep things open, I think communication is very good. It may not seem like it, but the fact you both talk to each other is good. And about the pot thing...perhaps this is just his way to escape his depression and negative feelings. Not this is a healthy or positive way to deal, this may just be why. And if you believe he is high, sometimes you may be able to get more information out of him, unless he is completely out of it, then there is no used in talking to him. I don't mean to sound mean about using his being high toyour advantage, but I think its possible. Anyway, I wish you and your daughter the best! Good luck to you.
