I'm still rather new around here getting my ground and figuring things out. You said something in your last statement "who abducted my husband and replaced him with this guy? where did my real husband go?" I have been wondering the same thing. My H says things completely out of character. He actually told me one day that marriage is nothing and he could get married as many times as he changes his underwear. I mean really. He compared marriage to underwear. My H has ALWAYS held marriage in high regard and loved talking about me and our kids. I have no idea who this man is anymore and he seems to take pride in the fact I don't know him anymore. I feel for you regarding the drug use. Although its not the best way to deal with things, this may be a way for him to get through all of this. He may be depressed in which many people drown their depression in substance abuse. I think its great that he at least shares information with you. This is a good thing. The more he's sharing the more you know and can sort of figure out where he is at. Anyway, I wish you and your daughter the best.
