We have set plans to visit my husband at his new place for Thanksgiving. It works out best for my job and for my daughter to have as much time with him as possible. Not sure if we are going to spend Thanksgiving Day together. That would most likely be my choice and I am not sure if I want to.
On another note, he mentioned to be a few weeks ago he smoked pot with some buddies. He then admits these buddies (who he hangs with quite often) are potheads. He says he didn't know until know. I don't mind the occasional recreational drug use, but too much, well you know.
So last night he called to say good night to our daughter. He went out and sometimes when he goes out he stays at his buddy's place. Probably too messed up to drive home. He says he can't deal with being in our house and it makes him go crazy. I try to believe him because he always volunteers this information. I figure if he was doing something really inappropriate he could do it at our empty house and be home or he wouldn't tell me he was sleeping away. Perhaps I am being naive again. I even question, if he was unfaithful would I even care? I know this isn't my husband and he is not acting like himself.
Anyway, I speak with him and am 99% sure he is high. He is yawning alot, slow speech and losing focus. My daughter is trying to talk with him and he is talking over her to talk to me. It pissed me off and I told him to be quiet, she is speaking.
Now I ask you for those who have been through this, who abducted my husband and replaced him with this guy? Where did my real husband go? I believe again this is a combo of depression and mid life crisis. Will my real husband come back? Cause I don't want this one.
