Kalni - I think you are at the point like I am - you have gotten yourself so burned talking to your H about the R that you just want to move on and not go over old ground anymore.
If he really was concerned about wanting to save the R, I would think he would put all his thoughts down in writing for you along with his justification and guarantees of why he thinks your M could be saved. He needs to be more of a pursuer now than just being a little boy that makes you feel sorry for him.
