Thanks guys. Kat, I think you're exactly right. My boss got some crap from someone and he was passing it down hill.
Pup, I'm right there with ya. We'll see what happens with the book. And we'll see what happens with the movement towards the marriage. I told her that I wouldn't discuss any R talk while she reads the book so as long as I know she is, I have to stick to my word. Thing is, I really think she's getting close to figuring it out. And if I'm just patient she'll come around. I truly believe she's NC with OM. I think she gained respect for me with the things I said in the email.
Maybe I'm still getting played, but I've detached enough that if I am, F her. Maybe when you get to that point you can do what's necessary and then your marriage has a chance.
TAL, I thought that was really big that she sat there and empathized with me and validated what I was saying. And then it was my turn to do the same for her. It was nice that she listened. And she never rolled her eyes ONCE! No time to email now, but I will when I get a chance. Hope everything is well at your house.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
