Sorry HTTE, I obviously got you confused with one of the many very similar situations floating around here.
You actually sound in a very healthy place to me. However, just because you are in a good place doesn't mean that it's that completely calm state of peace. Yeah, them not wanting to work on things is the heartbreaker. A lot of the time, I feel like a piece of linoleum that she's thrown away. First, I was taken for granted, then walked all over and then thrown away.
I really like that statement. I like it a lot.
I've been slacking on things. My son's birthday is next Tuesday which means that we should celebrate this Saturday and I haven't planned anything including to make a cake. I'll have to scramble, but, it will still be a most awesome birthday for him.
