Originally Posted By: KenF
last post 9/24, where does the time go? oh yeah, hours of pain and waiting and healing.

no real updates on my sitch, just counting days till the STBXW moves out. looking forward to it actually. doing some shopping, new sheets, some furniture. some things for ME. its my time now, me and the kid.

very little interaction with the STBXW. i have no interest in her or what she's doing anymore. the dissappointment in her choices is still there, absolutely. but for her personally, nothing. i made the mistake of asking her how her day went (habit) and as soon as she started answering, i realized i really didnt care.

just want to know what i'm left with after the divorce, and start getting into my schedule with the kid.

peculiar how quickly focus changes when the decision is made.


yes it is Ken. Once the decision is made and a plan in place then things seem to get easier.

have you learned to fart either of those tunes correctly?? I would think that would be high on the list of requirements of the next young lady who enters into your life....or maybe your a romantic and would like to surprise her with that newfound talent??