Dan, we are very much in the same situation. My W does not live in the house, but she does watch the kids there since she rents a room in a shared house.
I don't know how I feel these days. I know that I love her. And that I would want to try with her if she were willing. But she's not and I have reached another step towards detachment and look forward to the peace that filing will bring.
I do go and socialize. It's great. I'm just not into anyone else. It's actually a cool place to be. And yes after the D is files I'll re-evaluate where I stand.
Someone said to me on Tuesday, "Act as if your children will read about your actions in tomorrow's paper, and you want them to be proud of you."
Gave me a lot to think about.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
