And what is a good marriage relationship anyway? Is it just agreeing to spend time together, taking care of the kids, working on things together, sharing a few orgasms \:\) , listening and disagreeing knowing that love underneath still supports us? Could I ever have it as simple as that with my W?

If I could get the past from my mind, it would be so much easier to work on the future. If I could get the past from my W's mind, it would be a helluva lot better.

I know I can't change her or control her right now. But can I remove any reasons for her changing in the future?


H42 W36 M9 yrs
D8 D5
d-day: 21/11/07
S and moved out: 22/2/08
Still S: 22/11/10


Current Sitch