Had a session with the MC alone today. He came up with some excellent advice.
1. Do not expose the affair. She'll just confirm that I am the ogre she perceives me to be. She is already showing signs of conflict and remorse and may be on the verge of admitting it herself.
2. GAL. But not just any life. Start to do things to make her jealous. I have a friend who she knows is an invenerate phillanderer who travels all over the world. He is always offering to take me with him. I am going to go with him the next couple of trips.
3. Keep exercising and losing weight and making myself more physically attractive.
Do 1, 2, and 3 sound reasonable? Do you agree or disagree with them or would you add/substitute anything else?