I think you already know what you need to do but you just cannot bring yourself to do it.

You have got to absolutely stop being confrontational and bringing up ow, etc. That is a must.

Does it matter where he sleeps in your house? That would be the last thing on my mind.

Remember, they do not want a mother figure telling them what to say, think, feel, etc.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19