Originally Posted By: yenko69
The whole jealous thing from the W has been ongoing. My IC said to expect to see her want to reconcile when I am over her and start dating again. I do try and set a good example for the girls. The older one is messed up beyond anything I can do(other issues between her and me), so I focus mostly on D11.

Yeah, I agree with your IC. At that point she will probably realize she is losing or lost you and that the grass isn't greener, etc. I do think they think we will always be there for them. When I went to a party a couple months ago, H was very upset about it and that is just weird. But then at that point you will decide if she is the right choice for you or not. As time goes on, I find it less likely that I would reconcile. I think sometimes the LBS will do better than the WAS in the long-term you know?

I try to set a good example too, feeling that almost I have to make up for H's bad example. And I always hope they will follow my example, and so far they mostly seem to thank goodness!!! \:\) I think kids learn mostly by watching what their parents are doing, and I think some parents don't realize that maybe... Karen

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