His replies were really insightful. I found this to be quite significant.
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Him: I am tired of working on us! I just want to get a long for a really long time and stop talking about all this sh#$! Me: How can we get along if we never spend time together? Him: I don't want to spend time with you right now Me: That hurts...I know you don't feel like you could love me like that again, but that is because you keep telling yourself that...maybe you should try telling yourself something good about me Him: I have been noticing good things about you
It just shows the confusion. How about working on spending time together without talking about r stuff - see a movie together or something. That way he knows he doesn't have to 'talk'