Thank you all for posting! It's such a relief to hear that I'm not the only one in this situation! I browsed through the forum a little but I noticed that most of the couples are older, so I'm glad that I found you all who are around our age. I will have a look at your stories.
I also figured that he's in some sort of crisis, that his life is passing by without him, sort of. We had a lot of stress the last 6 months before he moved out, had a lot of fights and no sex life. Maybe it was just too much for him.
As you probably read, there's also OW involved, I'm not sure what part she's taken in this drama. Maybe she convinced him that he's so unhappy and needs to break free. He can be influenced very easily...
At the moment we're still having contact, he's texting me and calling me, but always for a reason. Last time I asked him if we could do something together some time, have dinner or go see a movie. He didn't turn it down exactly but he said it would be just out of friendship.
Do you think I should accept his friendship? I don't know what to do...


Me -32
BF -28
together since 2002
not married
no kids

Separated 05/08
BF lives with his parents since