My thought is, I would talk to him. Find out what he wants, if anything...
For months he would not talk about anything, and you said it would be easier to let go if you had some answers....Then a couple months ago you said you no longer had questions. Are you sure? I think getting together with him, even if it is for the LAST time, and hearing what he has to say could be helpful. Even if it just helps you offically close the door.
I am not you, but if it were me, I would always wonder in the back of my mind what he wanted to say, if I didn't let him say it...
