Aww crap. Feeling sorta guilty because during one of my talks at him (yes, I mean 'at') I called him a man-slut. That from my perspective, it looked like there was about 45-60 days where he thought we were 'for sure' getting a divorce, and in that time frame he managed to sleep with 2 girls.
He did say "well, and I figured out that's not what I want" and I said "Of course it isn't. Sh1t, have some discretion!"
Anyway, I guess I am wondering if I burned a bridge....wait, it was *after* I said that, that he was trying to get me in bed. I guess I didn't. I don't know. I guess it doesn't matter.
We will still have to speak because of a tax refund that is coming; but aside from that, I am DARK.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing