Some of our candid conversations back and forth seems so very similar to Kalni and Woog.
Hmmmm, I could tell you where that leads but only if you or her moved to Europe...
On your xW's "messed up life"... I often think I would like it better to see my xH happy and thrilled with his new status because I would see with my own eyes that he "exchanged" me for a better life which would be understandable... Being exchanged for "nothing" (as it seems), still hurts sometimes... Love K