W wants me to sell the house....advice please

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I am moving here from the Piecing forum after W told me in no uncertain terms that she is not reconcilling.

B4 this we were casually dating and she said I 'smothered' her.

Plz help me get back on track. I am 'going dim' as best as I know how. No texting. No R talk. No lingering in conversations.
Trying to Gal and work on making a living, changing careers.