Thank you for posting on my thread! I never went to court but my ex told me that I "drained him" but he didn't get much at all & what little money he got he had to pay lawyers!
My ex also became a demon during all that time. Never in a million years did I think my H would talk or treat me the way he did.
I am also dreading the holidays! I posted on my thread about my day today so I won't take time on your thread.
Sometimes I also feel like giving up but for some reason I just can't do that yet.