Wow. Intense song. So, Ready, are you still hopeful for any kind of reconciliation or is it over for you at this point too? Sometimes I find it hard to tell from what you write (and the songs you share).
Me-44, W-45 Together-25 yrs, Married-21 yrs D-17,S-15,D-13,S-10 ILYBNILWY Bomb: 10/2007 Status: Divorce Mediation, Still under same roof My Story
FFDP was great last night! I was front row for the bleeding.....
I am keeping faith that W will come out of fog, but I need to keep moving forward without her. Work on me. It is a whole lot easier to practice being nice to other women who don't have a wall up between us.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
I got lots of practice at that in Ottawa - without the touching or physical part of course! Man its so easy without that damn wall.........
I hope mine does to. First time this year she phoned me today to see if I wanted to go out for lunch!!! Or, if I was at home and for me to make lunch for her. Ya, I know, took me a bit to pick my bottom jaw up off the floor to!!
But, alas, I was out doing stuff to make me feel better and that was hanging out with a good friend of mine down at the beach on a beauty of an indian summer day!
God I pray to Him that there is a next time.
Joe
M: 37 WAW: 35 D's: 9 & 7 M: 13 Bomb: 01/28/08 Status: Limboland Total bomb drops: Lost count! Support: Here, God above, and now the Love Dare
I am keeping faith that W will come out of fog, but I need to keep moving forward without her. Work on me. It is a whole lot easier to practice being nice to other women who don't have a wall up between us.....
And I am sure the other ladies found you to be a very attractive man!! It is a nice ego boost when other women give you the look. Need to keep the distance, which of course drives them crazy!!
Howdy friend, finally found my way back after taking a short break to focus on S's birthday. I've missed your insightful comments and am gld to see you are still doing great. Going to bars alone...WOW...I'm very impressed. I tend to take myself out on dates every so often and always seem to enjoy my own company.
The Hendrix book, I picked it up but felt like what was the point. My M is over, H has made it very clear how he feels and I just cant keep holding on anymore. You have a more positive attitude than me and I adore you for it. Enjoy your alone time and dancing with the women!
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Hi, Don't mean to jump in on this thread, but I saw smartcookie here and I need some advice quick.
My wife is a walkaway. Just found out my wife had an EA about in March of this year. She still may be having it. I am very close to her family. What does DB'ing say about revealing EA/PA to family members? I don't remember reading anything about it in either of the books.
It is a nice ego boost when other women give you the look. Need to keep the distance, which of course drives them crazy!!