I was secure in my R & M for more than 20 years. She will NEVER feel secure in theirs!!! How could she possibly? They deserve each other...
Donna, brilliantly put! I feel exactly the same way. I sometimes wonder if us LBS cycle together at times. Look at how many of us are now at the same point with this journey. As sad as it is, we have fianlly been driven to detach completely and let go of our WAS. There is a sence of freedom with that as well, along with the what if's. I am learning each day to no longer think of the what if's, just to be grateful for the what I haves!
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008