For the Guy with Kids and a WW XV

[karen43]

Anything I can do to try to help kill the fantasy works for me. She did get to me last night, though. I know it shouldn't have. She just got me back. I start to believe that maybe she really IS happy. Hopefully he DOES wonder. Maybe this guy really does have infinite patience. What a nice guy.

Makes me puke.

I can't relate--just kidding! Yeah, I think about that stuff too. You know what my H is like and I'm like how the heck could any decent halfway self-confident woman want to live with him???? I mean obviously I'm crazy, and I guess she is too??? It's weird! Maybe they act a lot differently than they usually are, almost like playacting they're a different person or something??? Karen

[lost_in_space]

Hey H4H.

Keep up the PMA. Easy when you have your girls I know. But I see you getting better when you don't.

Sorry I haven't been around much. Having L's involved this week have preoccupied my time. Hope some normalcy returns soon.

[hopeful4her]

I think that I believe that too, karen.

Acting.

Last night with that syrupy voice. GAG!

Seems SO fake. But he "understands" her. BAH!

She can be herself around me. She knows we have a comfort level. Not really right now. Right now, we are uncomfortable for the most part to start out, then things just kind of get there. On my part, a lot of it is on purpose. Trying to let her see me being cool and not buddy buddy. Hard to do, but I try.

[hopeful4her]

Hey H4H.

Keep up the PMA. Easy when you have your girls I know. But I see you getting better when you don't.

Sorry I haven't been around much. Having L's involved this week have preoccupied my time. Hope some normalcy returns soon.

Sorry, I was responding to karen.

Don't apologize. I was telling you to get out and do something because these boards have a tendancy to get addicting.

I am getting better, but tonight being the first night without them makes it hard. Should be a better day tomorrow.

We'll see.

[karen43]

I am getting better, but tonight being the first night without them makes it hard. Should be a better day tomorrow.

We'll see. [/quote]You sound pretty good. It will be--it always is! I have to go to sleep now--past my bedtime!!! I missed Kat being here tonight--maybe we should do the next movie on a weekend so we can stay up later??? Yeah, all night!!! Okay, I'm rambling too, better go to bed! Sweet dreams!

[kat727]

Since lodo passed on picking the next movie, it is your turn. Pick a good one.
kat

[karen43]

Pick a good one.
kat

Yeah, H4H, either really funny or really exciting. No pressure!!! Karen

[hopeful4her]

What EXCITES you, karen?

[kat727]

Have you come up with a movie yet?

kat

[whatdidido]

h4h....Well, it seems as if she is either "still deciding and is in between", being nice so she can get all that she can in the divorce, or cake eating. Doesn't matter. Seems as if you are doing the right thing. So, now the week you had the kids it seems like she got to see them often. When you don't have the kids you should still try to see them often. You don't think she could be trying to get proof that the kids are with HER more so she can show that to the courts? Probably nothing, but I think about stuff like that now because I don't trust anyone (due to how sneaky and deceptive I was ).