Hi optimistwife, Just read thru a bit of your thread. (Similiar to mine). Seems like you have been handling things well. I totally understand how tough it is to keep going w/such little contact. Hang in there. Sometimes you just have to try another path of dealing with M problems to see where it takes you. Don't worry about what others tell you - remember this is your life!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)