Should I pinch myself?

[optimistwife]

Oh good luck! Research your counselor quickly but carefully. I feel like the one I picked back when my husband WAS willing to go ended up being NOT pro-marriage. Told me that since we didn't have kids that it wasn't as important that we stayed married. Never tell that to a 34 year old who wants kids! With the man she married...

Ask if they are solution based, pro-marriage. Hopefully you have one up your sleeve and ready to go. Would he be willing to talk to a DB coach-

Sorry- i am just so excited that he has given you this chance. Sometimes they are nuts! Take advantage of this time of letting his guard down.